Weddings Don’t Have to Be Expensive to Be Beautiful - Here’s Proof

Dear Bride,

Let me just say this upfront: you don’t need to spend a fortune to have a stunning, meaningful wedding. Some of the most beautiful weddings I’ve ever photographed weren’t held in ballrooms or stuffed with 200 guests. They were small, soulful, and bursting with intention. And honestly? They felt magical.

If you're dreaming of a simple, heartfelt day that feels like you two, without going into debt or feeling pressure to perform, here are some ways to plan a wedding that’s intimate, beautiful, and budget-friendly.

1. Keep the Guest List Small (and Full of Heart)

This is the easiest way to cut costs, but also the one that brings the most peace. Invite the people who truly matter, the ones who know your heart, love your relationship, and bring good energy. I’ve seen couples light up when surrounded by just their favorite humans. No pressure, no performance. Just presence.

2. Choose a Venue with Heart, Not Hype

Some of the most breathtaking weddings I’ve captured took place in backyards, quiet parks, or cozy Airbnbs. One couple even eloped by a cliff at a local park, just the two of them, a few close people, and the wide open sky. Your venue doesn’t have to be fancy. It just has to feel like you. And with the right photographer (trust me), even the simplest spot becomes a dream.

3. DIY the Details That Matter

You don’t need over-the-top decor to make your day feel special. I’ve seen brides create magic with thrifted vases, handwritten signs, and wildflowers from a local field or farm. A little creativity (and a few good Pinterest boards) go a long way. Invite a few friends over, put on a playlist, and make it fun.

4. Ditch the Formal Dinner - Go Cozy Instead

Full plated dinners can cost a small fortune. But I’ve seen couples serve brunch, picnic baskets, tacos, or even donuts and coffee, and guests loved it. Choose something cozy and personal. It’ll save you money, and your guests will remember how fun and different it felt.

5. Hire Fewer Vendors, But Make Them Count

You don’t need the full vendor checklist. Maybe photography and music matter most to you. Maybe it’s someone to help coordinate the day so you can relax. Prioritize what feels right, not what the internet says you need. When you work with people who get your vision, the whole day flows better.

6. Reuse What You Already Love

I always suggest repurposing your florals and decor throughout the day. Ceremony flowers can double as centerpieces. Bridesmaid bouquets can dress up the dessert table. Your own bouquet? Let it shine next to the guestbook. Get the most beauty out of every bloom.

7. Say Yes to a Dress That Doesn’t Drain You

You don’t need to spend thousands to feel beautiful. I’ve seen brides glow in $100 off-the-rack dresses, vintage finds, and white dresses that weren’t even labeled “bridal.” The truth? It’s not about the price tag, it’s about how you feel in it.

8. Skip the Favors - Add a Moment Instead

Most wedding favors get forgotten. But heartfelt moments don’t. Write handwritten notes. Share a group toast. Include a memory table or invite your guests into a blessing. These are the things people carry home in their hearts.

Your wedding doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. It doesn’t have to impress Instagram or live up to your cousin’s 200-guest affair. It just has to feel like you two.

Simple doesn't mean less, it often means more. More connection. More laughter. More space to breathe and be present. And more room to focus on what truly matters: the beginning of your marriage.

You’ve got this, and I’m cheering for you every step of the way.